Showing posts with label communication. Show all posts
Showing posts with label communication. Show all posts

Sunday

Blogging for beginners: for whom do you write

This is a challenging question for all writers. The fact is you really cannot please everyone and it is often useful to find yourself at odds with at least some audiences. The alternative is to so average yourself that you end up not standing for anything. It is far better to be respected as a leader or authority in your focal area.

Writing, tough as it is, is still the easy part. Getting published, a near impossibility, is also relatively easy especially if you self-publish or put your own money on the table. Those all represent big enough challenges, of that I have no doubt, but the greatest challenge, by far, is marketing your work.

Friday

Blogging for beginners: what should you write about?

Only you can really answer that question.

That said, the answer is as relevant as the answer to your career choices? Most people who choose to do what they were never designed to do, fail to do much that matters. Oh, of course, life is often like Joseph's dungeon, where we end up in spite of all our best intentions, yet, even then such dark moments are not about diverting our life course down another road. Indeed, it is in such dungeons that God lights up the dark to enflame the passion of our lives.

Who knows how relevant you will be for all your struggles and what a difference you could make for having worked through the issues that stand between you and victory?

We are but pie in the sky, empty clouds without water and hollow vessels, if our conversations are merely the product of reason. No amount of reason or learning can ever substitute for experience. Thus it is all about experiencing the heart that beats for this world, because we can only truly bring life once our hearts are ignited by the zeal of God.

Tuesday

Blogging for beginners: Why blog at all

You may well think, as you look around, that blogging is irrelevant, the pursuit of individuals without a real life or who want to rant and rave even if no one is listening. That is somewhat naive, for there are many very useful sites out there and not a few of them belong to very significant people, people who use blogging as a real part of their Public Relations and Marketing efforts. As such, there are many very rich and meaningful sites out there that are really making a difference. 

So why should you blog?

There are a number of good reasons:

- Publicity
- Self-evaluation
- Accessibility
- Networking
- Economic 


Friday

Some inspirational quotes and poetry for writers


"Writers, like teeth, are divided into incisors and grinders” ~ Walter Bagehot

"We talked about our voices as writers--how they are strong and brave but how as people we are wimps. This is what creates our craziness. The chasm between the great love we feel for the world when we sit and write about it and the disregard we give it in our own human lives”~ Natalie Goldberg

"The story arises in the unconscious” ~Dorothea Brande

"What is The Subconscious to every other man, in its creative aspect becomes, for writers, The Muse”~ Ray Bradbury

"One writes out of one thing only--one's own experience. Everything depends on how relentlessly one forces from the experience the last drop, sweet or bitter, it can possibly give” ~ James Baldwin

"It is a paradox of creativity that the very way to move beyond the conventional stage [of writing] is not to try harder, but to take a seeming step backward: to reawaken and cultivate in ourselves some of the ways we had of perceiving and expressing when we were children" ~ Gabrielle Lusser Rico

Poem by Frederick Lehman

Could we with ink the ocean fill,
And were the skies of parchment made,
Were every stalk on earth a quill,
And every man a scribe by trade,
To write the love of God above,
Would drain the ocean dry.
Nor could the scroll contain the whole,
Though stretched from sky to sky.

Sunday

Total communication is systemic, touching the entirety of others

Humans use multiple communications channels. Our five senses are vital for sensory inputs and for expression. Indeed, it might surprise you to know that people are far more influenced by perceptions than by what is actually heard or read. Non-verbal language accounts for over 60% of communication and listening is often better than telling.

That is why we experience so many mixed signals and misinterpretations in electronic communications. Without the further dimensions of non-verbal cues, communication is often cold, wooden and mechanistic. Symbolic gestures that amplify our feelings on a given subject, do help e.g. emphases, bold text, italics, emoticons, visuals or the tone of our communication. Its never going to be as rich as the real thing, but to preserve the efficiency of electronic communications, trade-offs are inevitable.

Tuesday

7 habits of great writers: 7. Develop multiple communication channels

Before Jesus was born, the way (channel) was prepared so that when He stood up to speak to the people, his platform would be assured. God actually prepared that platform over a period of 4,000 years so that His ministry would have relevance to that world. Sin and judgment were two primary concepts that were ingrained in the social conscience before He came.

God also prepared the physical distribution channels, by introducing Jesus to the world only once the Romans had completed their roads and the Greek language had universalized communications. This also shows great attention to detail, which reflects how deeply serious God was about the process of salvation and judgment.

Thursday

7 habits of great writers: 6. Write right

The term, “well done good and faithful servant”, is reserved for those who faithfully steward what God entrusts to them. The Apostle Paul also challenged believers to “wait on your ministry”, implying that a gift needs to be honed into an effective instrument.

Cain was a man of original ideas, who showed no sensitivity to the needs of his audience and critic – God. If he had been more in touch with God, he would have taken a lot more trouble to do the right things, which Abel intuitively did.

Therein lies the soul of an effective writer or blogger – like Paul of old, that which we receive from God we faithfully entrust to the righteous, by the way we carefully steward His priceless truths.

Tuesday

7 habits of great writers: 5. Touch their hearts

A good book, especially a spiritual one, should make them laugh, make them cry, make them sit up and make them act. Never be one-dimensional. God has always filled my life with delightfully amusing moments that were illustrative, yet so relevant and practical.

He used the same style when He illustrated deeper spiritual principles and concepts through the ordinary lives of contemporary biblical characters. He wove insights into each story that each truth lent itself to many different situational interpretations. It is because the bible so adequately vindicates itself through my real-world experiences that I now simply scoff at gainsayers – you cannot judge the bible from an aloof distance the way a critic assesses a book or a movie – you have to feel it.

Thursday

7 habits of great writers: 4. Be relevant

The stories of old, provided reference points for historians. They highlighted cultural and environmental contexts and helped put the audience in that time and place. That is why we relate to those stories. It is also the reason that we so readily refer to historic stories to inform the present and future. I am not sure we always learn from history, but we certainly do tend to take history into account as we go forward. 

Similarly, your story must not be out of touch with your current culture else it will never find an audience. The people that spoke then spoke to “then-audiences”, but we speak now and should address “now-audiences”.

Sunday

7 habits of great writers: 3. Its a journey

Once the intent of a book or blog post or some other communication, has been established and your passion for the subject is ignited and God’s spirit has filled your sails, set your course and stay with it. Jesus set His eyes as a flint towards Jerusalem, in much the same way that a book embarked on, is a mission that must have a destination.

En route to the cross, Jesus healed people and we are often inclined to see that as the defining feature of His life. Yet He never once diverted from His course, to become a man of wonders. He did as many miracles and healings as was necessary to achieve His surpassing purpose and that gave credence to His defining work at the cross.

Monday

7 habits of great writers: 2. Get to it

I started writing a journal of my experiences in a time of great personal struggle. That start was analogous to being able to steer a moving vehicle, as opposed to trying the same with a stationary vehicle - which is not quite as much fun.

Once I had set my sail and cast off, I moved out of my safe moorings into open water and then was able to feel God’s breath fill the sail – the adventure was underway. I had to make the first move. I had to depart and get out of the departure lounge – after all we don’t fly in order to have the lounge experiences, we lounge in order to fly.

There is a principle with God, that in giving we receive. In following that process, generally to the point of freely giving away my most treasured material, I found God to be a bottmless well that always, always filled up again. I have never come near to expending His limitless potential - except in times when I stagnated and stopped outpouring what He gave me, into the lives of others.

Saturday

7 habits of great writers: 1. Start at the end

Stephen Covey coined the principle of starting with the end in mind - its a good principle, for if you don't know where you're going how will you know when you get there?

The principle is just as relevant to writing. One of the big mistakes we see daily in marketing, is a tendency to say, “Here is a solution, let’s see if I can find a problem to fit it”, or rather “Lets make your problem fit my solution”.

The counter-view is best described by the story of a man who went to a store to buy a drill, only to be asked, “What do you want to do?” He replied, “I need to make a hole in the wall”, to which the store manager replied, “Ah, well then what you need is a thing that makes holes in walls”. It seems obvious I know, yet many salesmen have spent frustrated careers pushing a product instead of solving needs.

Thursday

Managing perceptions when blogging

... and now for something completely different.

One of the most fundamental of all marketing principles relates to perception. When a guy sees a pretty girl it is all perception – “she must be great, because she looks great”. Overheard whispers in the pews behind me during a church service, suggest that either the minister is going beyond the call of duty or my new electric shaver is making up for the disuse of aftershave. Actually, I just think gals also form first impressions of other good looking guys.

After the initial phase of seeing and meeting, perceptions give way to deeper issues, where they either confirm initial perceptions or fulfill the worst of fears. It’s like letting donkey speak in Shrek, where he should know that its better to be deemed a fool than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt.

Tuesday

Manage email, don't let it manage you (some tips)

Now to get off the subject a bit. I follow the very relevant and topical site of Michael Hyatt, CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishers. He raised some concerns about his email overload and elicited comments. 

After boring him with my own feedback, I did some general research and here are my findings gleaned from various sources:

Manage expectations - deliberately coach senders about things that irritate you and gently move them to a different style e.g. get to the point, shorter please, etc. In fact, send back the email and ask them to reformat appropriately and you will undoubtedly progress to a cleaner inbox. Let people know upfront that you do not want to get certain messages - like those cute little "pass it ons". Also politely ask people to remove you from their "general circulation lists".  

- To avoid offending I once put in a rule that sent an appropriate message to emails that asked me to onsend to someone I care about. There are other rules you can set up, or if you can't, mimick a rule i.e. send a reply email that seems automated - it will be less in the face than a direct confrontation and once set up and approved, your personal assistant can happily use it where needed. Rather get complementary channels to link back to your primary site. Also elicit inter-debate so that the debate itself draws people, rather than you having to feed them. Also use surveys to elicit opinions, rather than driving up traffic.

Sunday

The oldest profession

We all know what comes to mind when we speak of the oldest profession, but for various reasons I think writers have a greater claim to this title. No I am not saying that writers were the first prostitutes although the term does describe how writers are tempted to sell the soul of their craft to popularity, commercialism or plagiarism. I am merely arguing that writing is the older and more worthy profession.

Prostitutes may be "professionals", but they are not "professors". They do not occupy seats of learning, although they may at times share the beds of the learned. A profession speaks of a collection of professional occupations that includes doctors, lawyers and so on. They are highly skilled specialists in a given field of practice. Writing, by implication, can be regarded as a profession, prostitution is just prostitution.

Secondly, we have been around for as far back as history goes, because that is in fact what defines how far back history goes. History is the recorded past. If it isn't recorded it isn't history and it most certainly isn't recorded history. Okay, so maybe dinosaurs didn't write and they predated humans so perhaps fossils go back further, but as far as human activity is concerned our records of their existence are substantiated through cave graffiti, carvings, clay tablets and written scrolls.